Jordon got offered a management position in Salem. He would be making way too much for us to say no. But the commute would be HORRIBLE for him.
Soooo.... here we go again, the whole
to move or not to move dilemma. The good thing is that I'd be really close to my two brothers who are going to school in Monmouth. And still not too far away from Mom and Dad. (An hour, at a non-rush hour.) The bad news is that I don't really want to move, and that Salem SUCKS! Sure, it's our state capitol, but it's got a serious drug/meth problem and I highly doubt there are any decent yarn shops down there. Plus, I'd have to quit my job, (which is fine with me, quite frankly,) but I'd know NO one. Jordon would be working longer hours, and I'd have no friends or family, just my brothers as company. And they barely count. Poker parties aren't my thing.
I am more excited than I sound, though. I hate that money is such a driving force in our lives, but man, he'd be making literally double what he's making now, and a chance at a maximum $1000 bonus each month! Good will come of it. But moving sucks.
On a happy note, my mom and I did go check out a wedding/reception site, and I am IN LOVE!!! I haven't been this excited about the wedding, since... well, ever! I love Jordon and I love all that marriage represents, but I'm not a big wedding person, so I haven't done ANY planning in the year we've been engaged. Now, though, that is changing. This place is just
perfect. It was a church-turned-art gallery which is definately us. Jordon wanted a traditional, spiritual place to get married in, and I wanted an atmospheric, beautiful, unique place to get married in. I am absolutely thrilled my mom discovered this place! I'll try to post pics ASAP. This blog just maaay turn into a wedding planning blog, so buckle up, folks!